How To Add 91,250 People To Your Network!

Today I was thinking I need to let you in on a tiny secret I use to build my personal network.  There is a old saying by someone really smart that goes like this. If you want to make a million dollars, then have a million friends.  I live by this and because I do, I have the best friends and the best business relationships of anyone I know. 

This tip will be really short but powerful.  If you make it a goal to meet just one new person every single day. A new friend if you will.  If everyone knows about 250 quality people, at the end of just one year you have increased your access to 91,250 new friends! 

In my business I am paid on how much I produce.  I am kicking the competitions butt because I am meeting new people and becoming friends with them.  The old way of just marketing to people is dead!

I would love to meet you and see what I can do to send you some people you might get along with.  Shoot me an email and lets chat!!  http://www.emailcasey.com 

Give someone an AWESOME day!!

Casey

Tell someone they are AWESOME and make the world a better place!

Howdy all! 

Lately I have been thinking of easy things everyone can do to make the world a little bit better.  Today I am going to tell you one of the things I have been doing for so long it is truly a habbit at this point.  It is something that you can do literally in less than a minute and I promise if you do it for 30 days straight you will not only make the world a much better place but will put you in a networking category only left to the professionals. 

Here we go…..ready??  Pick up the phone and call someone you have not talked to in over a month and just let them know you are thinking of them and wanted to check in.  I do NOT mean email!  I mean a 5 minute phone call!  When you reach out to someone and do not try and sell them anything you are coming from a place of abundance and you will see results.  Here a a few ideas of people to reconnect with.  Your little league coach (yours or your kid’s), the best teacher you ever had, an old flame, your latest client, your veterinarian, your dog walker, Doctor, ex best employee, a lower level employee, you get the point.

I would love for you to leave a comment and let me know of the first couple of people you can think of who deserve to be told how AWESOME they are.  Happy calling!!

p.s. You are AWESOME and I appreciate you!

How to Network the Friendly Skies!

Howdy all!  So one of the things I am really looking to do is finding all of the ways to build a large world wide network of friends.  The one thing that is really cool about running a blog and business based on networking is the many ideas that come into the in box from people all over who have figured out unique ways to meet people.  This one was inspired by an email I received and has made its way into my life. 

I heard a great quote last week and it went like this, “Want to earn a million dollars?, have a million friends!”  Here is one of the ways you can meet some new friends.  When I travel I always try to have as many stops on a trip and always sit in the middle seat of the plane.  Why you ask?  Well, you meet two new people on every leg of your journey.  Now, I know what  some of you are thinking….. but it only works if your “neighbors” are open to a discussion.  Sit in the middle and you have twice the likelihood of meeting someone interesting.  I have over 10 people I still communicate with I met on planes.  One is a guy who buys mobile homes in beach communities and rents them out!  I still check in with him about twice a year and he owns half a park in Malibu!

Please do not use this as a way to badger strangers but I offer you this as a simple way of meeting people that most will never think of.  Take on the responsibility of staying in touch after the flight.  I once flew with a new mother and son on the same flight as a late night host.  Her child was so well behaved and funny that I ended up taking pictures of her and the kid.  Ever since then I send her birthday and anniversary cards with their pictures on them.  I could go on with the stories but would like to hear yours!

Remember if everyone knows just 250 people then every trip you take has the potential of opening the doors to over 1000 new people!  See you in the middle! Happy flying!!

Start Your Day with a little Burst of Sunshine!

Hey Gang.  I was chatting with Christina from vaagogo (who is the best V.A. on the planet!) this morning on what to post about and she pointed me here.  You see, everyone who is walking the earth needs to feel positive to get the most out of the day.  As a person who is here to give ideas, tips, tricks, etc on the topic of networking I feel like everyone should be in a great mood every single moment of every single day……..O.K. I know I am a tad over the top but at least most of the day.

I have a  service that will send you (and your clients or prospectsif you choose) a wonderful positive quote with a little action to improve your life every day.  It is short and to the point.  Takes about 10 seconds to read and will brighten your day and give you a little nudge towards a more productive day.  You can unsubscribe at any point and your name will NEVER be given to anyone.  I promise. 

I am going to give the link for you to have this little burst of sunshine sent to you on a daily basis and want you to understand, I do not get anything except knowing you are having a better day.  Please let me know what you think.  Here it is   http://tinyurl.com/3ldjkp  please enjoy them as much as I do.  Give someone an AWESOME day!!  You are really appreciated!!

Can one cup of coffee really make you a fortune?

Howdy!  Thank you for checking out my blog.  I really apprciate every time you read an article and leave a comment.  They are all read by me and I enjoy every single one.  So a quick thank you for leaving a comment. 

I would like to share a quick story about how one cup of coffee and a second chance has made me several thousand dollars.  Is it a fortune? Not yet but I can tell you by the time the relationship is in full bloom it will have.  About a year ago I was in a local coffee shop showing a friend what I was doing for a new business when I spotted her.  There she was, barefoot sitting in a big fluffy chair reading “Think and Grow Rich” and chatting with every person within ear shot.  You know the type, kinda loud, outgoing, chatty, and has the energy to draw you in to the conversation just by her presence.  My friend and I were actually making fun of her thinking she was a bit “off”.  Boy was I an IDIOT!!

I do remember thinking this is a gal I should meet since I am in the people business and she surely knows a bunch of people.  This would be where I wished I was telling you I walked up and met her, but not so.  Sorry.  I left and drove away.  When I was in the car driving home, I remember thinking I may have just walked away from a great person to know.  Weeks passed and I actually did go back to the coffee house to she if she was there. No such luck!

About a month later I happened to be at a networking mixer and literally bumped into her!  No way was I letting this pass me by.  I introduced myself telling her the set up where I saw her before and we laughed.  Turns out she was a credit coach (did I mention the necklace made out of a gold Amex card?) and was prospecting in the coffee shop!  Holy Smokes! 

To make a long story short, we met for coffee at the same place I saw her before.  She is now one of my closest friends and we talk almost every other day.  She has directly referred me THOUSANDS of dollars worth of business and is one of the best referral partners around.  The morale of the story is always be on the look out for people you want to get to know and do not be an idiot like I was and drive away! 

That one cup of coffee will over time turn into a fortune and a lifetime friend.

Tweet for Twitter’s sake! How Twittter made me a sale!

O.K. So I have to admit something but only to you.  I did not ever think you would be reading a post by me about a social networking site called Twitter.com.  Well, here you are and I am gonna climb onto my soapbox and tell you why you should consider using this site to build your business.  Here we go……

  Twitter is a site that allows you to follow or be followed by other users and in a short little quip know what is going on in someone’s life.  It also is used to update your Facebook page if you have one.  This little deal has been the coolest thing for me and it has resulted in some really cool things happening.  The basic premise is that you keep tabs on some of your favorite people, leaders, ideas, speakers, clients, prospects or friends.   It is really fun but also alows you to see what your data base is up to.  For example, when I post a tweet it shows on my facebook page but also in the Tweet summary of the people following me.  KInda cool when I can see in a snapshot what friends and teamamtes are doing. 

A real life example of how this can benefit business was when I saw one of my teamamtes left a tweet that she was having a difficult time showing our product to a prospect.  She was just venting but I saw that she was in trouble.  I called her immediately and helped show the prospect why she should buy the product.  My teamamte would have not have made the sale and been frustrated but with Twitter we made the sale. (Yeah Baby!)  It is all about networking and I will continue to bring you ideas that work for me!  Enjoy and please find me on Twitter at  http://twitter.com/CaseyEberhart

Please fell free to leave a comment if you have a geat twitter story or just really like leaving comments.  I love them all!

Do you ASSume?

Welcome to my sick mind!  Casey here again with another networking tip for you.  Do NOT assume!  I am going to tell you a little story that happened this morning in hopes you will get the point.  One of the things that will help you network and build a huge business is listening.  Now, here is the key to this deal.  Never ever assume the person you are talking with is telling you the whole story.  I am not saying they are lying but it is not your job to assume or fill in any part of their story. 

Let me tell you about “Gale”.  Gale is a potential client of mine who is all about assuming what her clients might want based on nothing more than her own story.  You see, Gale claims to be broke and because the story in her head is real, she is assuming all of her clients must be broke too.  We are talking about her coming on board with me in a position where she would sell a product to her existing client base.  Her base buys really high end products from her but she keeps telling me how broke her clients are.  The funny thing about this is that my product is just an add on up sale that is actually really inexpensive compared to what she is selling. 

I am asking, no begging you, to please not make assumptions on what people will buy or how much money they have in their bank account.  You must have a really big ego to think you know what someone elses situation is.  You will be a much better networker if you concentrate on building a long lasting relationship with people and not try to pretend you know more than you really do. 

When you can release your ego and let a relationship blossom you will be a much more valuable asset to others making you an ideal networker! (O.K. I could not resist using my blog name here)

Go out and give someone an AWESOME day!!

Does your email address confuse people?

Howdy everyone!  Casey Eberhart here with another tip for all of you folks looking to actually do business via the Internet.  Let me share with you what I have been doing all morning long and what conclusion I have drawn about email addresses.  This morning I have gone through stacks and stacks of business cards with the intention of putting them in different stacks according to how likely I will follow up with people.  If you are anything like me, you probably have 100’s laying around on your desk just waiting to go through them.  (As an aside, if you need some ideas on what to do with all of your cards, check out my friend Alan’s blog at www.followupsuccess.com ) 

I have an email list stared with all of my contacts in it.  You will probably have one as well growing that list every time you meet people.  Here is the thing I noticed over and over again this morning.  PEOPLE ARE CONFUSING!  It made me so confused I actually stopped inputting them into Constant Contact to write this post.  Here is the thing.  hotchik456hyes@rr.kc.orn.com for a lady named Samantha who sells high end real estate is a bit confusing.  After entering literally about 100 email addresses today, I ask you to take a few seconds and look at what your email address says about you.  You need to make sure you do not confuse anyone by your email address because you WILL lose contacts.  You might consider buying your own name and making your email address something like yourname@yourname.com.  When you use a free service such as yahoo or gmail, it makes you seem a little less professional in my opinion.  You might also consider making it really easy for people to email you by setting up a site like www.emailcasey.com. 

I beg you to take a few seconds and ask yourself if you might be confusing people by a silly free email account.  The last card I entered was for an Arbonne rep with an email address at an insurance office!  Does this make any sense to you?  Is she selling insurance or lotion?  You tell me. 

P.S. You may email me at www.emailcasey.com or casey@idealnetworker.com

Give someone an AWESOME day!!

Is Your Attitude Flushing Sales and/or Relationships?

I have been thinking about this post for about a week now, and after enjoying my cup of coffee for the morning I am ready to share a story with you that has made me really take a good hard look at networking with people who may not have the best attitude.  Let me say a few things before I share with you how one guy flushed away literally tens of thousands of dollars within one hour!  This blog is designed to give you some ideas to help GROW your business through experiences, stories, and ideas from not only me but you as well.  Read this story with the idea of checking  your attitude at the door when headed out to network.  Enjoy, I assure you “Sam” won’t.

So last week, I had the privilege of being the host at a Chamber networking dinner.  I was tapped to run the meeting and educate the members of some new idea to help increase productivity.  Easy for me as I had just written the vacation list post.  There was a member, we will call him “Sam”,there who sells commercial and personal lines of insurance.  Personally I have hired him on 3 different occasions and referred him too many times to count.  Total premiums paid to Sam by me directly?  Around 40,000.00.  He is a great Broker and one who I have been a big supporter of in and outside of the Chamber.   

At this meeting there were about 40 members and around 10 guests.  In my opinion the meeting was AWESOME!  Lot’s of interaction, good food and new faces.   As the host, I did my usual deal and came up with a little exercise to get people thinking of better ways to work.  I had them all write down the few things that would need to be completed if they were leaving the office on vacation for a month.  We then just wrote “To Do” on the list.  There were a lot more details that I will share if you are interested.  Shoot me an email if you would like. http://www.emailcasey.com 

After the meeting was over, I was swamped!  People were saying that the exercise was one of the best ideas they had heard.  I was immediately asked to speak at two more events and the room was on fire!  I was very pleased to say the least.  EVERY SINGLE guest joined that night and the response cards showed it was one of the highest rated mixers.  I do NOT share this to brag, it was the other people in the room not me, who made it a great event.  This is shared only to set a scene for what I will forever remember as one of Sam’s costliest events of his life!

Sam came up to me while I was being showered with compliments by around 10 members and gave me a quick hello handshake.  All would have been fine had he just walked away.  Not Sam.  While all 10 or so people were saying how the meeting was awesome, Sam started in telling everyone that the exercise was an “absolute waste of time and that he was not interested in playing stupid games but generating new business”.  The reaction was kind of comical from my perspective.  Being attacked in front of a group by someone who clearly has the capability to send you business??  Really?  I decided to let Sam keep going as I was now more fascinated by how this exchange was going to play out.  Sam went after me, the exercise, the way I ran the meeting and even the Chair of the Chamber.  He was quite upset that the meeting was not just a walk around meeting.  His attitude was so awful that I can not even imagine the people standing around will ever speak with him again, much less hire him.  By the time I had left the room, Sam had just flushed not only any sales from me or people I know but also his relationship with me. 

Let’s quickly look at the big picture here.  It was 2 hours of Sam’s time.  He lost sales, referrals, ideas, and was put into the category of people I would NEVER do business with again.  In fact would stop business if I had the chance.  All because he opened his mouth and out dropped his bad attitude!  I am all for different ideas, and I was not looking for everyone to think it was a great meeting but negativity has NO place at an event.  Stay home if you think you might show up like Sam.  It will save you sales and relationships in the end. 

Please feel free to comment on any of the posts you read, We all benefit from them.

What’s on your “vacation” list??

Today I am going to increase your office productivity!  This is going to perhaps be one of the best networking and business tips you are going to read about today!  It all started when I thought I was going out to Vegas for a “working” weekend.  I did the normal things one does before leaving the office for a few days. This included laundry, packing, finding someone to feed my fish, making sure the mail would be picked up, and lastly finishing up my “vacation” list.  I had sat down and created a list of things I needed to get accomplished and people I need to follow up with BEFORE I would leave for my vacation.  The interesting thing about this list was it was much longer than my daily “to do” list.  It included things like.

1. Follow up with an email and “Nice to Meet You” card to the 12 people I had met that morning at a Chamber breakfast.

2. Respond to and clean out my two email accounts (45 emails total).

3. Have Christina, my assistant from V.A.-a-GoGo, start calling my team inviting them to an event. P.S. She is the absolute best and if you need help with “admin overwhelm” call her!

4. Close two sales that have just needed me to take the info and put it in the computer. (I get paid when the info goes into the computer).

5. Update my Facebook page.

So for the entire day I worked so hard to get everything on the list completed.  By about 3:00 in the afternoon, an iced venti soy latte, some dance music in the background and a few hours distraction free time, I did it!!!!  The list was completed!  Yeah for me.  I could now leave for my “vacation”.  Packed and ready to go, I got a call and in one 30 second conversation, my trip was off.  Bummer.

Here is the real lesson.  I worked so hard to get everything of the list done that I had got more accomplished in one day than I usually do.  Why is that?  I knew I had to make up for a couple of days of no production but the reality was I more productive just based on a perceived lack of time.  Here is my new way of making my daily “to-do” list.  I know make the list as if I am leaving tomorrow morning for vacation and must finish everything before going.  Holy smokes I am more productive.  Please go right now and make your vacation list and leave me a comment on how you did in completing your tasks for the day.  On the top of your list, may I suggest giving someone an AWESOME day!